Paloma's Mad Lab: Popped Open - July 2009

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I know summer is over and the rainy school season has started. It’s been raining a lot, in fact, that I was able to spend more time indoors. I was able to do a lot of things I love, especially checking my email! Ha ha! I’ve seen that a lot of you have been seeking my help, so I wanted to dedicate this month to all the readers who supported and emailed me to help them spice up their sex lives.

Hi new guru! My girl and I have a perfect relationship but still something is missing. Every time we have our session, I want her to give me a mind-blowing head but she’s not good at it. Please give us tips.

Brian

Two things came to my mind when I read your message. First, why don’t you try to ask your girl if you guys could watch a porn video together? When she agrees, get a video that specializes in that area. Suggest that both of you copy the same thing, meaning reenact the video while it’s playing. The second thing is simple. Spit. Tell her to spit some more while giving you a head so her mouth glides smoothly to your thing and tell her not to tighten her mouth too much. Practice always makes perfect.

How do I convince my girlfriend to allow me to cum inside her mouth or on her face? She doesn’t want to try it. She says it’s “yucky.”

Osleck

A lot of girls really think it’s “yucky,” but how will she know the difference between “yuckiness” and the ability to satisfy herself by giving pleasure to her man if she’s doesn’t try it for experience? Who knows, she might like it! I had the same experience when I was younger but the pleasure and the sexual energy I got out of sucking good, hearing my partner moan, and seeing his eyes roll made my days much better.

I’m 23 and my problem is that I always feel aroused when I see sexy pictures. I always feel like spanking the monkey—in fact, I do it five times a day! How can I control myself? And also: What is the best sex position for you? What kind of blowjob is the best?

Rob

Hey Rob! Getting aroused by staring at sexy pictures is normal especially for guys, so don’t feel bad. Masturbating five times a day is also actually normal for a young and curious 23-year-old. Don’t worry: I myself have guy friends who bust three times a day and still get a hard-on! Now...how to control it? Discipline, my friend. Try to transfer your sexual energy into different parts of your body so you can do other productive stuff than masturbating. Try Tai Chi—that, I assure you, will help. I am trying to learn that, too. If all else fails, pray!

About the best sex position—hmmm, I can’t name one because there’s a lot to choose from! But here are my top picks (in the coming months I will elaborate on them): Me on top (every woman’s favorite), Butterfly, From the back, Standing (or the Sofa Spread Eagle), Mermaid, and 69.

As for your last question, achieving the best in anything requires practice, communication and lots of experimentation. We will tackle more of this soon. We have all the time in the world, after all… ;-)

For questions and suggestions email palomasmadlab[at]gmail.com

Paloma would like to thank Premiere Condoms, FHM and Summit Media, Belo Medical Group and Gold’s Gym.

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